G Spot: What It Is, How to Find It, Sex Positions to Try
When you think that a girl has to squirt or if you expect your partner to squirt or if your partner expects her to squirt, then that is an added pressure she should not take. This kind of vibe has both internal and external portions (two “ears”) for a best-of-both-worlds situation, Tanner says. Typically, the part that goes inside is also curved to hit the G-spot, while the external portion is nubbier and designed to offer rumbly vibrations to the glans clitoris at the same time. All the experts SELF spoke with suggest starting slow and gentle. After all, a 2023 study found that the clitoris is very sensitive because it has around 10,200 (!!) nerve endings. (For reference, your entire palm has about 17,000.) So you don’t want to do too much too quickly.
But you can never know if you will squirt until you try. Do you feel like peeing when you are close to reaching orgasm? While holding it down may sound like a terrible idea, it can give you immense pleasure.
Additionally, the rarity of squirting in mainstream discussions of female sexuality contributes to its mystique and the shame that can surround it. Let’s embark on a juicy journey to explore one of the most intriguing, and yes, splashy aspects of female sexuality – squirting. Although I know some people who had their first squirting orgasm in their teens when they had their first orgasm, I didn’t squirt until I was in my 40s. Squirt fluid is incredibly drying (think hot tub water) so extra lube is important. You may feel wet, but wet is not the same as lubricated. I love silicone lube since it doesn’t wash away as quickly as water-based does, but just use your favorite, and lots of it, and keep re-applying.
The truth of it is, this doesn’t happen during a typical, run-of-the-mill orgasm and for those who do experience “squirting,” it isn’t usually this insane explosion of volcanic proportions. It might be this way for some people, but definitely not for all. It feels like, on every shitty porn site, you’ll see the words “squirting” or “golden showers” popping up. Now, if you venture to actually click on one of these links, you’ll find a camera full of hairless vulvas with copious amounts of liquid shooting from vaginas right and left. Sometimes, applying slight pressure to their lower belly with one hand during penetration can encourage squirting.
Just be aware, you may be changing the bedsheets frequently with this technique I’m about to teach you. You can reach her at [email protected], or at VMTherapy.com. Staying hydrated is key, says Play how to squirt during sex, though he recommends that prospective squirters pee before getting things underway. Being with him in that room, I felt a strong connection and trust. It wasn’t just about squirting, which felt amazing; it was that I felt emotionally connected to him.
If she’s not warmed up, it’s going to be a rough ride. If you’re not talking, reacting, or checking in, you’re leaving her guessing—and trust me, she’s not enjoying that kind of mystery. You know that saying, ‘good things come to those who wait? Most premature ejaculation problems come from rushing through foreplay. So, just relax and enjoy the journey—whether or not things get really wet. That said, there are toys you can use to help have a nipple orgasm, too.